November 22, 2004

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Mrs M and I went to that rarest of Hong Kong social occasions: a dinner party. Amongst the guests was a newly arrived upper middle-class Englishman, a well-to-do financial type from the "suffering the colonies until we find local chaps half-competent enough" school. While condensending to break bread with Antipodeans, he clearly saw Hong Kong as something to be endured rather than enjoyed.

The conversation progressed as it typically does at these things: the foibles of local living, the folly of Americans, the idiocy of George W., a few lewd jokes and quietly competitive kiddie-comparisons. For the most part I bit my tongue, knowing I was out-numbered, out-flanked and out-drunk. Yet not once but twice this man slipped in anti-semitic insults. I missed the first, but Mrs M clearly heard it and gave me that meaningful dinner party husband/wife look, which could mean anything from "you have parsley in your teeth" to "Mayday, Mayday, Eject, Eject!" Having missed the comment and being male I had no idea what this look meant, but I knew I would be fully de-briefed after the event to what I assumed was my faux-pas. Later the conversation drifted towards Bill Clinton and inevitably Monica Lewinsky. Our gentleman, with clear vile in his voice, called her "that ugly, money-grubbing, Jewish girl" in the midsts of his diatrabe. Mrs M and I immediately shared that meaningful look. A line had been crossed. We were now in a difficult situation and did the only thing we could without completely embarrassing our hosts. We made our hasty apologies and left, disappointed an otherwise enjoyable night was tarnished by the ignorance of an English twat.

If I had said we were Jewish our learned friend would no doubt have gushed apologies and "it's OK, you're the good kind of Jew". I cannot taint all Brits with the anti-semitic brush. But the incident confirmed my impression that for many upper and upper-middle class Englishmen (and women), this kind of quiet anti-semitism is fed to them with their silver spoon. At least he proved Tony Blair correct in one sense: the classless British society is here. It's just not in the sense they imagined.

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You pose a distressing question and present a sad story indeed. Being from the US, I'm not sure if apologies are appropriate in this situation but I say sorry anyway. It's terrible indeed that anti-semitic attitudes persist and no group of people on earth is willing to admit its own faults.

posted by: Matt Waters on 11.22.04 at 01:56 PM [permalink]

Thanks Matt. I wasn't looking for an apology from anyone, except perhaps Mr. Born-to-rule. Prejudice will always exist, even (especially) amongst the "upper orders".

posted by: Simon on 11.22.04 at 03:42 PM [permalink]

That's why so many of us live outside the UK. The only thing that separates these guys from the Chavs is the schools they go to.

posted by: fumier on 11.22.04 at 04:50 PM [permalink]

One of the problems of being Jewish is that Jews are often not easily recognizable. If you were wearing a yarmulke, the wanker banker Brit would never have made those remarks, just as he would never have made derogatory remarks about black people if he was with a black couple.

This is why anti-semitism is a weather-vane of sorts: no one knows who exactly is a Jew, and this makes or rather allows people to reveal prejudices in a way that they would not do with other easily identifiable ethnic groups.

posted by: Jeremy on 11.22.04 at 11:19 PM [permalink]

Hi, Simon.
I think you should broaden your analysis. Anti-semitism is not only an english problem (if it is), it's an european problem (certainly it is). Never been to France or Spain?

posted by: 1972 on 11.22.04 at 11:55 PM [permalink]

Enzo: you're right, but this was just an example of that particular English kind of anti-semitism. It's a different beast.

Jeremy: bingo. That is exactly why it is a weather-vane. I fear anti-semitism is something that will always be with us, because there is always fear of the "other", and of "stereotyping".

posted by: Simon on 11.23.04 at 01:28 PM [permalink]

Always under the surface here, never gone away. I would have had trouble keeping my mouth shut. Particularly bad in France (see jewish newspapers every week). LBC presenter mentioned this problem at dinner parties. Pure ignorance I say, probably never met a jewish person in his life before. Met it constantly in my office.

posted by: sue on 11.25.04 at 03:18 PM [permalink]




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